Just Us-Come Chat, Ask, Complain, Giggle and Share
May 26, 2005 - Thursday
2:03 PM to 3:03 PM (EST)
Guest Speakers: Lisa Rosenthal, M.A., Educational Coordinator, The American Fertility Association
Categories
Donor Egg •
Fertility •
Insurance •
IUI •
IVF •
Third Party Reproduction
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| Lisa_Rosenthal | Hi TLeeR1, thanks for joining us this evening! |
| TLeeR1 | Hello! Hope I'm in the right place?? LOL |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | If you are looking for The American Fertility Association online educational session, you are in the right place. Now that is a mouthful.... |
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| TLeeR1 | Ok, good, I'm in the right place! I have not joined in one of these yet, but received the email today and thought I would try, |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | nyiap, good to see you again. |
| nyiap | thanks..I just found out yesterday I am pregnant...3rd IVF |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | TL, tonight's session is a little unusual, in that it is just us this evening- NO DOCTORS- so we get to just chat. |
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| TLeeR1 | Congrats nyiap! |
| TLeeR1 | how exciting! |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | nyiap, I have been following your posts on our message board, so congratulations, I'm so happy for you! |
| nyiap | thanks..I'm nervous though, go for my 2nd beta tomorrow |
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| Lisa_Rosenthal | Catherine, thanks for joining us this evening... |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Hi Everyone! I am Lori Masi the AFA's Patient Advocate! Welcome! |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | nyiap, hopefully, it will rise just as it's supposed too and everything will continue to go well. I'll check the boards, so please post. |
| nyiap | I will, and thank you, these boards have been very helpful |
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| Lisa_Rosenthal | I love the message boards... I hope everyone uses them... |
| Catherine | Lisa, Could you please introduce yourself? Do you have a degree in counseling? What family building methods are you familar with? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Don't forget me Lisa - I'm here too! |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Hi Catherine, this is peer support, not mental health counseling, we do have sessions with mental health professionals, but this is not one of them.... |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | This is for us to just hang out, chat, compare notes, help, complain, and LAUGH a little, I hope. |
| Catherine | What family building methods are you familar with to compare notes? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | And Lori Masi, who has introduced herself, thank goodness.... |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Me personally? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Welcome All! Please call the AFA Toll Free Support/Referral Line at 888-917-3777 for information, a referral in your area or just some good ol fashioned support. Looking forward to hearing from all of you! Lori Masi – AFA Patient Advocate |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Catherine do you have a specific questions about different options? |
| Catherine | How do people feel about egg donors? Has anyone used one? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | I have had IUI's, GIFT, IVF, FET. As educational coordinator for The AFA, I have about 15 years of experience with adoption, surrogacy, third party reproduction, same sex fertility issues. You name it, and in the last 15 years, we've talked about it |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Catherine when you ask about "people" feeling about egg donors which people are you referring to? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Egg donor is a wonderful, viable option for a certain population. There are many, many reputable egg donor agencies... |
| nyiap | I think if you need to use an egg donor and still can use your husbands sperm then you are lucky....I've heard the success rate is pretty high right? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | nyiap, how long have you been in treatment? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Yes, the success rate is quite high because you are taking the age related issues out of the cycle by using "young" eggs |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | TL, how did you hear about tonight's session? |
| TLeeR1 | I received an email.... |
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| nyiap | I started with my 1st IVF in November, then February, both did not result in pregnancy until now. Tried for one year on our own prior to that |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | TL, and where are you in treatment? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Hi Daniel! |
| Daniel | Hello |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Welcome Daniel, thanks for joining us this evening. |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Welcome! |
| TLeeR1 | new to this...been fighting the fertility battle for over 5 years now, but we thought it was going to be something minor until recently, |
| Daniel | Why thank you Lisa - did you get my message on Monday early afternoon? |
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| Lisa_Rosenthal | Yes, Daniel, been a busy week. Sorry. |
| Jenn2004 | hi
everyone |
| nyiap | TLeeR1...are you seeking treatment? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Welcome Jenn! |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Jenn2004, thanks for joining us this evening!! |
| TLeeR1 | I was diagnosed with PCOS, which thankfully is treatable...went through treatment for the that, rounds of clomid and nothing, finally discovered DH has low motility, and started going to fertility clinic.... |
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| TLeeR1 | did IUI |
| TLeeR1 | nothing |
| TLeeR1 | and DH's motility came back at 0 last month |
| TLeeR1 | so now looking into IVF |
| Catherine | It is discouraging to try and then have a cycle fail. |
| nyiap | TleeR1...we have a severe male factor, we used IVF with ICSI and I finally got pregnant..it is not a lost cause at all |
| Daniel | TL I am sorry to hear that but it is good that you are now looking into IVF |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Nyiap Congratulations! |
| TLeeR1 | Well, that's what the dr. told us this last week...she said she thinks it will be successful with IVF |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Male Factor is very treatable, and Daniel can really address that issue. |
| nyiap | thanks Lori |
| TLeeR1 | but now battling with how to pay for it |
| Daniel | Why - yes I can |
| Daniel | TL that is usually the hardest part |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | TL, are you seeing a Reproductive Endocrinologist and an Urologist who specializes in reproductive medicine? |
| TLeeR1 | yes, we are seeing both, |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Catherine I have had some experience with patients using donor eggs, do you have some questions? Please feel free to ask and if I can't answer I will tell you..... |
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| Catherine | Is having an egg donor easier on the woman receiving the eggs than IVF? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Lori, can you answer that one? |
| Jenn2004 | my dh had a sperm analysis that came back low sperm count, I believe it was 5.5 million /ml, he went to a urologist, but all he did was suggest blood work that told us dh has low testosterone. But other than that, he has not suggested us do anything other than dh quit smoking, and start taking vitamins. What other kinds of treatment are there for men? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Yes, very much so because you will be taking a minimum amount of meds where the donor takes all the stimulation drugs! |
| Catherine | Where can you find an egg donor? |
| TLeeR1 | Jenn.....My DH saw a normal Urologist who did not seem to recommend a whole lot, so our rep endo recommended seeing a urologist that particulary specializes in fertility...not all do |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Most IVF programs have a donor pool as well as some agencies that I can refer to you |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Catherine where are you located? |
| Catherine | Alexandria, VA |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | One of the things that Lori does best is Doctor referrals... Please make sure that you call her at our toll free number and she will help you~ but not right this second!!! LOL |
| Jenn2004 | How do you know when they speicailize in fertility? Or is it just something you have to ask? |
| TLeeR1 | My rep endo recommended one... |
| TLeeR1 | actually recommended several, |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Ok there are IVF programs as well as independent agencies, just give me a call tomorrow for some referrals! But please feel free to continue now with your questions.... |
| Jenn2004 | Oh ok, well I have not seen a rep endo yet. My insurance doesn't cover anything to do with infertility, so we have been reluctant to go that path just yet. |
| TLeeR1 | but is a large fertility clinic and they have some in their practice, |
| TLeeR1 | We've been very fortunate with our insurance...there is no way we would be to this point without it...but we have a lifetime max and we've almost reached it, so from here on out, we haven't decided on the funding part |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Don’t forget to please call the AFA Toll Free Support/Referral Line at 888-917-3777 for information, a referral in your area or support. You can also e mail me at LoriattheAFA@aol.com. Looking forward to hearing from all of you! |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Jenn, if there is one piece of advice that I can give you, it's to see a RE. They have the expertise that you need and will probably cut the amount of time that you need to be in treatment. |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Jenn also please try to ask if they are Board Cerified! |
| Jenn2004 | When paying out of pocket, how extreme are the costs associated with just daily office visits with an RE? |
| TLeeR1 | I know for our RE's first visit, her consultation fee was $275, just for a visit |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Jenn, there's no reason to assume that there will be daily costs- many people do not need very advanced treatment.... |
| TLeeR1 | They have recommended us to a company that does financing for fertility treatments, |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | TL, the initial consult is very high... and there are ways to finance treatment. |
| Catherine | What company if it is ok ask? |
| Jenn2004 | The reason I ask is my reg. ob/gyn has told me my next course for me is an hsg, but his cost is 1200. And unfortunatly at this time I can not come up with that large of a lump sum. I wanted to do the payment plan, but doing it that way ends up costing like 2000 :( |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | It can be a real waste of time, which is sometimes precious, depending on age, to stay too long with a ob/gyn |
| TLeeR1 | I will look up the company for you...don't have it in front of me |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Jenn I always tell everyone that if you internist said you have a heart problem you would see a cardiologist - well same thing here - if you suspect a problem you should at least have a consult with a specialist a board certified RE! |
| TLeeR1 | WE have made more advances with our RE this past year, than we did in 5 years with the OB/GYN |
| Catherine | success rates are higher for IVF and donor egg than they were 5-6 years ago. New lab etc. |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | TL, my point exactly. I wasted a year with an OB and frankly it was exhausting in so many ways, emotionally, physically, and I was on medication that had no chance of working for me. |
| Jenn2004 | That definatly does give me something to think about. I always knew in the back of my mind that I should be seeing one by now, (we have not prevented for 3 yrs, and I just finally got insurance coverage in November of 2004) So needless to say, I am ready to move on from my reg. ob/gyn |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Jenn if you need a referral in your area please call me! |
| Jenn2004 | thanks Lori, I have written down you number many times in previous chats, but could you please post it again. |
| Catherine | Does anyone know if there are Diplomates who are RE the highest level of MD professional? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Sure it is 888-917-4777 |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | I'm so glad that you all are here this evening. It's really helpful and fun to chat like this. |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
These are always my favorite sessions with us girls and of course you Dan! |
| Jenn2004 | Lori is there a good time during the week to reach you? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Usually mornings are busy, try after 1pm. I am here Mon, Wed, Th & Fr 9-5 EST and Tues evenings 5 -10pm |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Catherine, I don't understand the question.... |
| Jenn2004 | ok
great! thank you so much |
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| Lisa_Rosenthal | peppeer and Bonnie, welcome and thanks for joining us this evening... |
| Bonnie128 | Hi
Everyone |
| peppeer | hello |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Welcome Peppeer and Bonnie! |
| Jenn2004 | Hi
Bonnie |
| Bonnie128 | Hi
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| Jenn2004 | hi
peppeer |
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| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Don’t forget to please call the AFA Toll Free Support/Referral Line at 888-917-3777 for information, a referral in your area or support. You can also e mail me at LoriattheAFA@aol.com. Looking forward to hearing from all of you! Lori Masi – AFA Patient Advocate |
| peppeer | hello jenn |
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| TLeeR1 | Catherine: This is the company....You can find more info here: www.arcfertility.com I think you have to use a doctor that is contracted/goes through them..I haven't completely looked into it yet, so I don't know a whole lot of info |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Bonnie and peppeer please feel free to jump in and ask questions, make comments etc |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | There are other places for financing as well... |
| Bonnie128 | I am part of the DOH program in NY |
| Bonnie128 | that has really helped |
| peppeer | i am very curious about donor embryos, are their really over 400,000 enbryos being stored and waiting to be destroyed? |
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| Bonnie128 | is this for medical or non medical questions? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Bonnie what is the DOH program? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Peppeer, There may in fact be about 400,000 embryos, but it is not accurate to say that they are "waiting to be destroyed", where did you hear that term? |
| Bonnie128 | Department of Health |
| Bonnie128 | they supplement your income to help you pay for IVF |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Bonnie, tonight's session is unusual, we do not have a physician with us as is usual. |
| Bonnie128 | ok
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| Lisa_Rosenthal | It is a peer conversation. |
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| Lisa_Rosenthal | Hi Peachy, thanks for joining us this evening.... |
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| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
So you are part of the grant program is that correct? |
| Jenn2004 | Bonnie are there special requirements before they help you? |
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| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Welcome Peachy! |
| Jenn2004 | and do they only help with IVF? |
| TLeeR1 | using the word "grant"....do you have to pay it back? |
| Bonnie128 | I was just wondering, possibly someone here has information, my first IVF ended in a chemical pregnancy, I am doing IVF for the 2nd time in July ... Should I have any other tests done because of the chemical pg? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Jenn what state do you live in? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | The DOH program is only in NY state, in many other states, there is limited coverage. |
| Bonnie128 | I do not have to pay back the grant |
| Jenn2004 | Texas |
| Bonnie128 | it helps pay for IVF only |
| Bonnie128 | I feel blessed to be able to be part of the grant program |
| Bonnie128 | or I wouldnt never have a chance |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Let me look up TX but I think that you are not a mandated state! |
| TLeeR1 | thanks, definitely worth looking into to see if my state has something similiar...in CA |
| Jenn2004 | hmm, lucky me . |
| Jenn2004 | lol |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Bonnie, how wonderful to hear that it's being used so wisely. Who are you seeing? |
| Bonnie128 | usually my kind of luck too Jenn lol |
| Bonnie128 | I see Dr. Harry Leiman |
| Bonnie128 | |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | You are out of luck, right now in CA!!! |
| Bonnie128 | I love him |
| Bonnie128 | lol |
| TLeeR1 | that figures! |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Bonnie, you should!!! I love him too. |
| Bonnie128 | at Montefiore Reproductive |
| Bonnie128 | dont tell him I said that though |
| Bonnie128 | hahahhaa |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Please say hello to him for me, he is a good friend. |
| Bonnie128 | Oh I sure will |
| Bonnie128 | he's the best6 |
| Bonnie128 | best
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| Lisa_Rosenthal | Were you at the dine with the experts evening that we had with him a few weeks ago? |
| Bonnie128 | yes I was |
| Bonnie128 | were you there? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | I probably saw you, I was there too!!! |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Jenn e mail me you e mail address and contact info and I will send you the insurance info on TX My email is LoriattheAFA@aol.com |
| Bonnie128 | were you outside or at the tables? |
| peppeer | i had a terrible experiance with egg donor , lost all our money and it ws the worst experiance in my life- and now i am really interested in donor embryos, i guess this chat room is not for us--- |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Yep, me. |
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| Bonnie128 | Were you handing out the stuff outside? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | TL, where in CA are you? |
| TLeeR1 | Northern, SF area |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | There are some truly wonderful programs in that area. |
| Bonnie128 | Its a shame that they dont make it mandatory everywhere, I can't believe that infertility is not covered for all |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
peepeer what info are you looking for? |
| Bonnie128 | its very sad |
| TLeeR1 | We are very happy with our doctor/clinic so far |
| Bonnie128 | I love where I go also |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Bonnie, you want to hear something interesting? In MA, where there is full coverage, and it is the oldest mandated state in the country? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Jenn did you get my e mail address? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Only %16 of couples who are having trouble conceiving seek treatment. It is clearly not only a money issue. |
| Jenn2004 | yes,
I just emailed you my info. thanks |
| TLeeR1 | thats strange, |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Never mind I see your e mail |
| Bonnie128 | i cant believe that.... if not for this grant here in NY ... I would never have a baby, unless a miracle happened |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
After the session I will send it to you! |
| Jenn2004 | hmm...maybe
I should look into moving to MA. |
| TLeeR1 | LOL...yea really! |
| Bonnie128 | Dr. Leiman just did a Lap on me 3 weeks ago and removed a polyp from my uterus |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Jenn, I know that I considered it---LOL |
| Jenn2004 | thanks Lori |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Did I mention that I love Dr. Lieman? |
| Bonnie128 | hahahaah me too |
| Jenn2004 | yeah Lisa, it is very tempting. lol |
| Bonnie128 | I am hoping besides having male factor, which was the only thing in the beginning, all my other tests were clear, that removing that polyp may have had something to do with me not getting pregnant too |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | It's important to make sure that you are with a program/doctor that you are happy and comfortable with, and that they are superbly qualified. |
| Bonnie128 | Did I mention I love Dr. Leiman? |
| Bonnie128 | hahahahaa |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | How is everyone doing with food and exercise? |
| Jenn2004 | I definatly agree with that Lisa, I have had my share of dr's that make me feel anything but comfortable. And I just refuse to be treated like that anymore. |
| Bonnie128 | I just started acupuncture, which I find to be so weird, still haven't gotten used to it yet |
| TLeeR1 | On Metformin...FOOD??? not a good topic with me right now....LOL!!! |
| Bonnie128 | lol tlee |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Taking care of yourself during this is so important, it's easy to get depressed and it tends to be a downward spiral. Eating right, sleeping enough and getting moderate exercise are all ways to maximize your chances for pregnancy. |
| Daniel | You are making me hungry - still waiting for dinner |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | TL, you are very funny.... |
| Daniel | Lisa would you recomend a 5K perhaps?? |
| Jenn2004 | I completely understand TLee, I was put on metformin because my dr thought it would help. Unfortuantly, he should have done more tests before putting me on that medication. It was not for me, for sure. |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Dan you still there - you are too quiet.... |
| Daniel | Just lurking a bit |
| TLeeR1 | I'm supposed to take 4 a day....only taking 1 right now, and I'm so sick I can't see straight |
| Daniel | Giving up the Yankee game to be here |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Ut OH! |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Why yes, Daniel, running/walking a 5K (3.1 miles) is a wonderful, attainable goal. What a great idea. |
| Bonnie128 | WOW |
| Bonnie128 | My husband would never do that |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Daniel, I always knew that there was something wrong with you!!! |
| Daniel | LISA does AFA sponsor any races?? |
| Bonnie128 | Lisa are you from NY? |
| Bonnie128 | Lori? |
| Daniel | Bonnie
I am one of a kind |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Bonnie, I live and breathe in CT. |
| Bonnie128 | you sure sound it lol |
| Bonnie128 | oh neat Lisa! |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
I am in NY - born and raised! |
| Bonnie128 | me
too Lori |
| Daniel | ME TOO |
| Daniel | CT is a nice place to visit but..... |
| Bonnie128 | Hope Daniel is not Dr. Leiman in disguise |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Good, we have a club. The rest of us states better stick together. |
| Bonnie128 | hahahhaha |
| Daniel | Bonnie I can assure you I am not a doctor - crazy yes, doctor no |
| Bonnie128 | hahahahaah your funny Daniel |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Daniel is definitely not dr Lieman! |
| Bonnie128 | haahha lol |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Anyone having any trouble with in-laws? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | insensitive friends? |
| TLeeR1 | OHHH MAN do I EVER!!!! |
| Bonnie128 | wow that was easy |
| Daniel | ALL OF THE TIME - remember what I always say - you don't get to pick your rotten in laws they just come with the package!!! |
| Jenn2004 | When a state mandates coverage, does that mean they make insurance cover all infertility? Or just whatever coverage they decide? And what about states that are not mandated? |
| TLeeR1 | lol |
| Daniel | Now now am experiencing being the parent of my parent and father in law - I swear they act worse then my children |
| Bonnie128 | a mandate from what I have read does not cover all things all the time, like I believe some are mandated to cover diagnostic and some all the way up to IVF |
| Daniel | Jenn - sometime yes and sometimes now it depends on the State |
| Bonnie128 | my insurance covers IUI's & Meds |
| Jenn2004 | hmm...seems so unfair sometimes |
| Bonnie128 | I am lucky but IUI wont work for us with Male Factor |
| Daniel | Jenn - you ain't kidding |
| Bonnie128 | so it goes unused |
| Bonnie128 | It sure does Jenn |
| Daniel | Bonnie is that because there is a motility issue or low sperm count? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
States that are not mandated are just based on whatever your ins covers you for.If the state is mandated it depends on what they mandate as covered! |
| Bonnie128 | only problem really is morphology |
| Jenn2004 | I thought I had read somewhere that if an insurance company offers pre-natal they also have to offer something for inferitilty, even just dianostic, but mine offers pre-natal, but nothing infertiliity. |
| Daniel | Not motility but morphology? |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
That I don't know about... but again I think it depends on what the law in each state says.... |
| Bonnie128 | I did IVF last year but had a chemical pregnancy in January. I am hoping because my Dr. found the polyp on my uterus that it may have played a role in not staying pregnant |
| Bonnie128 | motility was always in a good range |
| Bonnie128 | not great |
| Bonnie128 | but good |
| Daniel | Jenn - most ins carriers will cover some basic diagnostic tests so long as they are not coded for "infertiliity" per se |
| Bonnie128 | Morphology ranged from 3-11% |
| Bonnie128 | more at 3% |
| TLeeR1 | Anyone know of causes for low motility?? |
| Bonnie128 | been at this for 5 yrs now daniel |
| Bonnie128 | urologist etc... |
| Jenn2004 | I think that was my problem. My dr's office said they would play around with some codes and see what they could do. About 2 days later they called me and left a message on my voice mail saying my insurance doesn't cover anything about infertility. Nice huh? |
| Daniel | Bonnie - everything is realative - what I would give to have what your DH has - me I am a big zero in the sperm count department |
| Bonnie128 | so sorry to hear that Jenn |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
That is always difficult! |
| Bonnie128 | I totally understand Daniel, sorry that you have to suffer from that :( |
| Bonnie128 | that really stinks |
| Daniel | Jenn - then you have a choice stay where you are and pay out of pocket - medical deduction perhaps or change to a practice that will be more accomidating |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Isn't Daniel wonderful? He is a AFA board member, and is a big help. |
| Daniel | Bonnie - I am well over those kind of issues |
| Jenn2004 | I think we are looking at changing. I don't like my dr to begin with, and everytime I even call their office the first thing they ask me is "are you pregnant" Ugh...I hate that. |
| Bonnie128 | oh awesome! he is a big help |
| Daniel | I
was blown away when I was first diagnosed but
not anymore - I know the difference between "varility"
and "fertility" |
| Jenn2004 | I tried explaining to the nurse that I found it very upsetting, but she said it was a standard question they ask everyone before you make an appointment. |
| Daniel | Jenn - it sounds like it is time to change |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Jenn, time to MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!! |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | I said it first Daniel. |
| Jenn2004 | I agree |
| Daniel | Yes you did |
| TLeeR1 | because they get pregnant people in right away, and everyone else gets put on the back burner.....time to change! |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Jenn I agree! |
| Daniel | Also it sounds like they really did not want to bother doing the little extra work concerning the insurance issue - after all it is not their money at stake - been there done that !!!!!!!! |
| Daniel | Bonnie so what is your next move?? |
| Bonnie128 | 1 more IVF July |
| Bonnie128 | and then I guess thats it |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | A Reproductive Endocrinologist's office does not ask that question. They assume that the reason that you are calling is because you are having trouble getting pregnant. Anyone can say that they specaliaize in infertility, only a RE really does, in any medical way. |
| Daniel | Bonnie - well I guess we should all send you "cyber" hugs |
| Bonnie128 | I am praying it works |
| Bonnie128 | thanks so much Daniel |
| TLeeR1 | our insurance told us they don't pay for "injections not done by the doctor"...so our doctor laughed and said no problem...I can just go in everyday for injections, then she'll be doing them, and they will be the price for her drs visits too, on top of the injections, if they want to be that way.....Point is...it's great to have the doctor on your side and that will help work with you and find the insurance loop holes |
| Bonnie128 | I
have faith in my RE |
| Bonnie128 | done |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | We love doctors like that TL!!! |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Jenn call me and I will get you some referrals 888-917-4777! |
| Jenn2004 | TLee that is DEFINATLY a good dr. |
| Jenn2004 | I wish mine were more like that. |
| Bonnie128 | wow thats wonderful TLee |
| Jenn2004 | I definatly will Lori |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Ladies and gentlemen, the session runs from 8-9 PM, if you are interested, please check the schedule as we have a session each week. If there is enough interest, we can add a JUST US session once a week as well. |
| Bonnie128 | Nice Meeting you all!! |
| Bonnie128 | Thanks for chatting and for all the great information! |
| Jenn2004 | Nice meeting everyone!!! |
| Bonnie128 | Have
a great night, see you all soon hopefully |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Nice meeting all of you! Good Night! |
| Daniel | I remember when we were cycling in the old days, nurses would give injections for a small fee but both my wife and I belonged to a group that would volunteer to give injections to those that could not handle it |
| TLeeR1 | night everyone! |
| Daniel | Good Night and Possitive thoughts going your way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Bonnie128 | thanks so much, same to you!!! |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Good night everyone!!! |
| Bonnie128 | nite Lisa |
| Lori_Masi AFA_Patient_Advocate |
Good night! |
| Jenn2004 | bye everyone |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | See you all next week. Good night |
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