Surrogacy and Third Party Reproduction
March 29, 2005 - Tuesday
2:13 PM to 3:13 PM (EST)
Guest Speakers: David Tourgeman, MD, Huntington Reproductive Center in CA
Categories
Donor Egg •
Egg Donation •
Gestational Carrier •
Miscarriage •
Surrogacy •
Third Party Reproduction
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| Stephen | Hi Dr, what is the differences with surrogacy, gestational surrogacy, etc? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | There is traditional surrogacy which involves an egg donor and a carrier of the pregnancy being the same person |
| Dr._Tourgeman | and gestational surrogacy which only involves the carrier of the pregnancy |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | so typically in traditional surrogacy an intrauterine insemination is performed, and in gestational surrogacy in-vitro fertilization is utilized and embryos are transferred into the surrogate |
| Rhonda | Do you automatically need a gestational surrogate if you are of advanced maternal age- you know, OLD |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Rhonda absolutely not |
| Rhonda | Well, what are the implications of carrying a baby, when you are older? |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | however if you are older than 55 yo then strong consideration for surrogacy is in order |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | There are higher risks for operative deliveries (C/section), diabetes in pregnancy and high blood pressure |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | The answer Sandy is that the uterus has no biologic clock |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Thus it does not matter how old the uterus is, it still is capable of holding the pregnancy |
| Dawn | I'm a balanced translocation carrier... robertsonian .... should I look to donor eggs at this point instead of using my own? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | At 46 Orly, using your eggs to produce a shild even thru in vitro is very small chance, thus egg donation may be best |
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| Lisa_Rosenthal | Welcome Shelly, thanks for joining us this evening!! |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Dawn-about 5-20% of embryos that viable would be affected, thus I suggest Pre-implantation genetic diagnosis to see if they also have the mutation |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Dawn-an egg donor is an alternative howeber |
| ShellyW | Hi, this is a first time for me doing this...hoping to find out some good info. |
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| Sandy | I'm only 33, but a very poor responder- 1 to 2 eggs- any suggestion? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | What has been tried Sandy? |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Shelly, please post questions! |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Has any one tried a microdose flare or antagonist protocol Sandy |
| Sandy | Everything! IUI's, injectibles, IVF- 3 times. I'm out of money and patience, and IDEAS. |
| Dr._Tourgeman | These protocols may result in better egg number |
| Allison466 | om on riund 3 ivf also just had 3 frozen embryos transferred friday |
| Dr._Tourgeman | My pleasure |
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| Allison466 | sry brb |
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| Frannie | Hi Lisa and DR. Tourgeman, am I too late? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | No Frannie |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Not too late at all. |
| ShellyW | Went through IVF once and failed. Trying again at the end of April. Is there anything we can do to help our chances? Male infertility in our situation |
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Welcome Frannie! |
| Frannie | Just wanted to get some information- why not your own eggs if older, but fsh is low? |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Shelly-I think you are doing the right thiing, how old are you and I asssume ICSI is being done. |
| Dr._Tourgeman | How old are you Frannie? |
| ShellyW | I am 27, yes ICSI was done. |
| Frannie | Dr, I am 44, my fsh is 12 and I have a 2 year old and 4 year old, with no problems, now I've been trying for 14 monthsl |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Best of luck Frannie |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Frannie first off you ar very fortunate |
| Frannie | What do you mean? |
| epbn | similar question here re age and FSH/Estradiol, I' m44, FSH 7.2 and Estradiol was 42. Now about to retrieve from 5 follicles. If decent FSH & Estradiol, to what extent does this impact chences of pregnancy? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | at 44 your eggs now make more mistakes during division and thus you are more likely to have chroomosomal errors as time passes |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Dawn-20-30 ponds is not that overweight and I wouldnt put it off |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Thanks to everyone for joining us this evening, especially Dr. Tourgeman! |
| Frannie | What do you mean by markers? |
| RT | Hi, |
| Dr._Tourgeman | They are a measure of ovarin responsiveness |
| Dr._Tourgeman | and test for how the ovary will respond to medication |
| RT | what does success depend on, with egg donation?? |
| Allison466 | any chance of pregnancy dr |
| epbn | thank you doctor Tougeman for the explanation |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Allison-of course |
| RT | Dr, |
| Allison466 | no |
| Allison466 | dr thinks was genetic |
| Dr._Tourgeman | RT-Reaaly your uterus is the on variable that must be attended to |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Based on what Allison? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Also the age of the donor and if there are any difficulties with the sperm RT |
| RT | Dr, we're planning to go for egg donation, I'm 36 years old, please tell me,will having retroverted uterus diminish pregnancy success? |
| Allison466 | losa i dont so mad at how the whole thing was handled actually dr says he ordered testing at time of miscarriage but hospotal says there was no order |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Allison-was there an evaluation of the uterus, blood clotting factors? |
| Allison466 | no |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Shelly some have suggested accupuncture |
| Dr._Tourgeman | however it is hard to ascertain how stress can affect implantation |
| Dr._Tourgeman | RT-Not at all |
| Dawn | I had 2 misscarriages around 10wks AFTER seeing a strong heartbeat. Second miscarriage was triploidy 69XXX. Now, I've been diagnosed as a balanced robertsonian translocation carrier. Seems that the triploidy does NOT support the translocation diagnosis. what about miscarriages after a heartbeat... is that normal for translocation issues? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | There is no data to suggest that a retroverted uterus will impact poorly on egg donation |
| ShellyW | Is there any other common factors that influence IVF outcomes? |
| Allison466 | o did have ohss and very sore and alsi developed hematoma unexplained bleeding in 7 wk of pregnancy but dr said baby wasnt effected however i was high risk and heartbeat week befir the loss was 170 bpm |
| Dr._Tourgeman | For those of you with miscarraiges, a work up should be done if there was a loss in the 2nd trimester or if you have had 2 or more losses |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | RT-Usually 2-3 days |
| Allison466 | dr how do i get this work up done? |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Allison-Should as your doctor to evaluate |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Shelly what is your question |
| Kaley | When is a good time for a second opinion on a workup that was done? |
| Allison466 | dr couyld it have been anything i did only thing diff i did was i took a bath? |
| RT | Thanks Dr, how many days of acupuncture should I go for before IVF with donor egg? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Shelly this is a broad question-I am not sure where you are going |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Kaley---For infertility or recurrent miscarriages? |
| ShellyW | Sorry - Dr. Sher from this website mentioned that he wrote an article called "Factors Influencing IVF Outcomes" |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Allison-there is no likelihood of this affecting you pregnancy...please dont find a reason to blame yourself |
| Allison466 | ty dr didnt think so but had to make sure |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Dr. Sher is a physician that moderates one of our message boards. What I have seen over and over again, is how often physicians have different opinions about how to treat problems with conception. |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Again Frannie-There is very little likelihood of success (unfortunately) and if successful there are many errors that can arise (e.g.Downs) with increasing frequency...having said that it is not impossible |
| Dr._Tourgeman | There are so many factors Shelly that I worry that I could not answer this so simply |
| Allison466 | dr i told u i went for transfer friday if embryo or embies implant would they have already and sorry if this soinds gross but woke up w wet undies in afternoon i have like a watery discharge ca n u tell me what could cause tyhis |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Impantation probably happened by now, and the discharege in all likelihood if from your high estradiol levels |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Allison, Dr. Tourgeman is so right. Simple, everyday things that we do or don't do don't create success or failure with pregnancies. We as patients tend to want to know the reasons or to figure out what happened, and sometimes there is no reason. Let's not take that a step farther and find the blame with ourselves. |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | My leasure |
| ShellyW | After the embryo transfer, I had cramps the next 7 days (which my dr. said was normal). On the 8th day (day before I found out the IVF failed), a couple of times throughout the day, I had "stabbing" pains in my stomach that hurt worse than the cramps the prior 7 days. Would this have meant I maybe wasn't taking it easy enough? |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Nancy in Calif |
| epbn | Dr can you recommend authors, universities, sources of current information (in additon to the amazing AFA site) to learn more about advances in ART? I have found many books and studies to be quite dated. |
| Jen36 | Where in CA and how long a wait to get an appointment? |
| RT | Dr, how many times will acupuncture help before IVF with donor egg? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Shelly-cramping is a worrisome sign |
| epbn | thanks Lisa! |
| Wannababy | Dr Tourgeman, can you post your phone number, please |
| Allison466 | ok well im hoping i get preg of coarse ,, however i do have another iption my family member she is 26 yrs old has 2 kids of her own is willing to carry baby for us i asked dr about this he said they dint do it in nj and might even be illegal do u know anything about this? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Epbn-we would be happy to send you literature |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Posting your phone number would be a great idea. |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Rt-Im not sure please ask your accunpuncturist |
| ShellyW | Thank you. Should I feel anything to know that the embryo might be attaching to my uterus lining and that the IVF would be a success? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Wannababy my nunber is 626-440-9161 |
| Dawn | I'm almost 34, and while on Clomid 50mg, have produced anywhere from 3 - 8 eggs total. Is that any indication as to whether I'll be a high or low respnder with stronger drugs for IVF, like Follistim? |
| epbn | Do you have any views on DHEA (Rx) and increased follicle/egg production? |
| sblm | Dr. what can be done about a patient who is hard to stimulate? My doctor was giving me the maximum dosage and I wound up with only three eggs, two were viable. IVF attempt failed. |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Shelly-You shouldnt feel anything |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Dawn this is a good sign! |
| Allison466 | another question i have is i have come across preg woman with pcos like me and they stay on the glucophage when i got preg dr took me off which do u think is better? |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | epbn-There are no studies that I am aware of that suggest you use DHEAS-I would not! |
| epbn | why not? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | sblm-Did you try a microdose flare or antagonist?? |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Allison-The ASRM suggest that unti more info is available one should stop Metformin when pregnanat] |
| Michael | What are options for male factor? Severe male factor. |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Micheal-How severe? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Has a biopsy been done Michael> |
| Michael | Motility is very low. |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | If there is some that are motile Michael, ICSI can be pperformed to provoke fertilization |
| Allison466 | o h felt loke my period was coming dr but i was relaxed o was sleepong |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Dr. Tourgeman, you are doing a wonderful job answering all these questions and keeping up with everyone! We really appreciate your time and energy this evening. |
| Allison466 | maybe ot was nerves too o so desperately want to be preg |
| Allison466 | yes |
| Allison466 | ceonone and pio |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Ask your doctor if he recommends taking more Allison |
| Allison466 | crinone |
| Allison466 | progesterone in oil |
| Allison466 | injected |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Got it-Ask if he thinks you need more |
| Dr._Tourgeman | this might sttle the uterus down |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Allison, I was a patient, in treatment for 6 years. We tend to get hyper-in-tuned to our bodies. Maybe some mind/body work would be helpful and soothing, also speaking with others that are going through this can also be helpful. |
| elle | Hi Dr T--Are you familiar with someone having elevated prolactin levels and ovulating when on clomid, but not when they are off? |
| Allison466 | ok om not cramping anymore doc this was only for first 2 days after trans should i still ask ? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Ovulation itself may increase Prolactin levels |
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| ShellyW | What is the average for women as to how many eggs are retrieved? I've read stories about women getting over 12 eggs retrieved. At my age (27), I only had 8 eggs retrieved and of that 5 matured and 4 fertilized. Used two embryos the first time and both failed. |
| elle | is dostinex the only answer for normalizing? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Shelly-probaly at 27 10-15 is average |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | We have wonderful message boards, that are peers only. Great place to go, complain, ask, help, whine, encourage and just talk, talk, talk. We all need an outlet when we are going through this. Try our peer support board, I lived there while I was in treatment. |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Elle-there is bromocriptine, parlodel |
| elle | ok thanks i didn't know about parlodel have bad migraines and they were worse with dostinex |
| Wannababy | Good question Shelly- Dr. could you talk about single embryo transfer? I've been hearing about it a lot lately. |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Sheely-the chances of success generally stay the same as for upto 3-4 attempts |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Interesting, wannababy- we have Dr. David Gardener coming into NYC to speak on single embryo transfer at our April 17 conference. Dr. Gardener did some wonderful research on the subject in Colorado. |
| Allison466 | ok dr if this 3rd attempt doesnt work what do u suggest time to give up? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Allison-plese remind me of your age |
| Wannababy | yes, but what are the statistics for pregnancy with 2 as opposed to 1? |
| Allison466 | oam 33 |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | If blast are transferred Shelly-and you are <35yo about 50%. |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | But I wouldnt give up... perhaps a differnet MD & lab Allison |
| Allison466 | what age wotld u say to give up hubby thinks egg to old after 35 is this true |
| Allison466 | im healthy non drinker non smoker |
| elle | i am almost 36 and going to try injectables on my 4th iui--could the prolactin have caused the failures for the others and do I have a chance with injectables |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Pregnancy rates diminsh after 35 yo, but not substantially so Allsion |
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| ShellyW | Was told that with frozen embryo transfer that our %age is only 10-15%, compared with it being about 60-65% with fresh embryos? Is this true? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | i.e injectible |
| Frannie | Dr, could you post your phone number again, please? |
| Allison466 | ok big question could ot be my weight iam over weight they say glucophage helps lose weight i havent lost a |
| elle | ty |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Freezing the embryos does dimish success but usually pregnancies rates are about half the frsh |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Your welcome elle |
| epbn | Dr, thanks so much for your time and all the info. Have an early am appt for blood and u/s, so signing off!! |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Thx epbn |
| elle | is the same true with frozen sperm versus fresh with success rates for iui |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Ladies and Gentlemen, we are so lucky to have professionals of such high caliber do these online sessions. One way that I do this is by promising that they will be off line, on time. That leaves us about 7 minutes. Keep in mind that if you have questions after the session, our message boards are moderated by physicians daily. They will answer your individual questions. One of Dr. Tourgeman's colleagues answers them on Sunday! |
| ShellyW | Is it also true that about 20% of frozen embryos don't survive after being thawed, before the embryo transfer? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | No elle-not the case with sperm |
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| Dr._Tourgeman | Shelly yes this is true-about 80% of embryos make it after freezing |
| jag_grotke | 38/poor responder - re wants to do a lupron microdose flare protocol. I've read mixed info about this protocol b/c of the additional LH. What are your thoughts? |
| Allison466 | i had 4 froze and only 3 survived |
| Dr._Tourgeman | sblm-is this for me?? |
| Dr._Tourgeman | jag-I agree this is the next step! |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Allison-right at 75% |
| angiebyerly | using a known egg donor next and want to know if there are any concerns or issues we should be considering? |
| Frannie | Good night. |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Good night Frannie, thanks for joining us. |
| sblm | Is Metformin a safe medication to be prescribed when one does not have an insulin problem? My gyn doc. suggested I take it while my RE said I should not. |
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| Allison466 | goodnight ty dr wish u were here in new jersey |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Angie-many...age of the donor, has she been successful in the past, your uterus |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Allison, we have some wonderful physician referrals in NJ, please call our toll free number and speak with Lori. |
| Kaley | Glad to have sat in tonight. |
| Kaley | thanks |
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| Sandy | great chat, thanks |
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| Allison466 | well i guess o really shouldnt have said that my drs have been good to me im just being a bratt |
| Allison466 | its just so frustrating |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Sorry was disconnected |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | We have just a couple of minutes left this evening. Thank you much to everyone for joining us this evening and asking such great questions! Please check our schedule and join us next week as well. |
| jag_grotke | Thanks! |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Dr. Tourgeman, you have been just wonderful. Hope that you enjoyed it as well and will join us again sometime. |
| elle | thanks |
| Dr._Tourgeman | Thanks Lisa |
| Stephen | nite |
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| angiebyerly | ty |
| Dr._Tourgeman | My pleasure |
| Orly | Thanks Lisa, and dr. |
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| Allison466 | ty also Lisa |
| Lori_Masi AFA_PAtient_Advocate |
Good Night All! |
| Allison466 | ill be back again this chat was very informative |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Allison, you're so welcome!! |
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| Rhonda | Good nigh |
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| Wannababy | I just love these chats! Night |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Good night Wannababy! |
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| ShellyW | Thanks for the great info! Will want to do these chats again. |
| Lisa_Rosenthal | Shelly, I'm so glad that you found it helpful. |
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| Lisa_Rosenthal | Please join us again, soon. |
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| gbodd | I have been diagnosed with PCOS after years of trying to figure out why I was gaining so much weight and why I had such difficult and irregular menstrual cycles. Now I need to know how the weight can come off. I tried glucophage but I did not feel well on the medication. Did I not give the meds enough time to work? I need help. |
| gbodd | Does anyone have any ideas to help me? |
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