Some of the things you need to consider are the age of a child you are looking to aopt (interntionally the children are 12 months and older). If you are seeking to adopt a newborn you are looking at a domestic adoption. Another area, is that of biographical, familial and medical background. Domestically the birth parents will supply this informaiton. Internationally, the information typically is that which is gathered from the tie the child is lefy at the maternity home or institution. (Frequently familial ackground is missing). Additional things to consider are an requirements or restrictions for the adoptive parents (age, marital status, income, medical issues, etc), the length of the process, travel requirements and overall costs. Bear in mind, if you adopt a chilod from a different ethnic or cultural background it is the entire family that becomes multicultural, including extended family members. Assess whether your family and community are accepting of a family formed in such a way before you adopt.
Overall these days, time lines and costs may seem similar. Historically, international adoption were easier to predict in terms of costs, time franmes, etc. Domestic adoptions are still dependent on each sitaution, where in the pregnancy the birth parent is, when you connect and and individual costs which wil be assessed by the agency or attorney you are working with.
However you decide to adopt, continue your research, including talking to adoptive parents about their experiences and who they used for their adoption. Then check out the suggested attorney or agency with local adoption experts. Best of luck on your adoption journey.
Kathy Brodsky, LCSW
Director, Ametz Adoption Program/JCCA
http://www.jccany.org/ametz