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Adopting Domestically versus Internationally
Posted: 04 August 2008 12:44 PM   [ Ignore ]
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What are the pros and cons between adopting domestically and internationally?  Furthermore, why is it so much cheaper to adopt a child overseas, when in fact, there is such a need in the US for parents willing to adopt domestic children who needs need homes.

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Posted: 04 August 2008 02:16 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 1 ]
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Some of the pros when you adopt domestically:  You can develop a relationship with your child’s birthparents.  This will enable you to hear about their health histories moving forward.  You do not need to leave work for weeks at a time (and maybe more than once) when you adopt domestically.  And, while some people welcome the opportunity of raising a child to understand and feel a part of his birth culture, you will not be doing this if you adopt domestically since y our child will be growing up in his birth culture.  Some of the pros of international adoption:  You may well be taking a child from an impoverished past into a life that will afford him/her new opportunities.  Similarly, you may be taking a child out of the institutionalized environment of an orphanage into family life.  In international adoption you may literally save the life of a child.  If you are someone who revels in diversity, bringing a child into your home in the U.S. can be an enlightening, enriching experience for all involved.  Note:  It is not always cheaper to adopt internationally.  You must figure in costs of travel, missing work, etc. when you estimate costs.
In fact, the cheapest way to adopt would most often be through foster care in the U.S.  When you adopt this way, you may also be saving a child.  There is a great need in the US to adopt the many children in foster care.  Children born in the US and outside the foster care system are highly sought after.  In the end, you may need to educate yourself more about all types of international and domestic adoptions before settling on the path best suited to you.

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Posted: 07 August 2008 06:33 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 2 ]
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Some of the things you need to consider are the age of a child you are looking to aopt (interntionally the children are 12 months and older). If you are seeking to adopt a newborn you are looking at a domestic adoption. Another area, is that of biographical, familial and medical background. Domestically the birth parents will supply this informaiton. Internationally, the information typically is that which is gathered from the tie the child is lefy at the maternity home or institution. (Frequently familial ackground is missing). Additional things to consider are an requirements or restrictions for the adoptive parents (age, marital status, income, medical issues, etc), the length of the process, travel requirements and overall costs. Bear in mind, if you adopt a chilod from a different ethnic or cultural background it is the entire family that becomes multicultural, including extended family members. Assess whether your family and community are accepting of a family formed in such a way before you adopt.

Overall these days, time lines and costs may seem similar. Historically, international adoption were easier to predict in terms of costs, time franmes, etc. Domestic adoptions are still dependent on each sitaution, where in the pregnancy the birth parent is, when you connect and and individual costs which wil be assessed by the agency or attorney you are working with.

However you decide to adopt, continue your research, including talking to adoptive parents about their experiences and who they used for their adoption. Then check out the suggested attorney or agency with local adoption experts. Best of luck on your adoption journey.

Kathy Brodsky, LCSW
Director, Ametz Adoption Program/JCCA
http://www.jccany.org/ametz

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Posted: 10 August 2008 09:23 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 3 ]
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Domestic VS International Adoption Centers mainly around the issue of WHAT type of child you are looking for? If a child that is “POPIN FRESH” newborn child, then domestic is the ONLY way to go . If age does not become a priority than you can consider an ininternational child that will be at the age of a year at the youngest. If knowledge of the “birth family “is a priority than domestic is the only way to go . Knowledge of family history is not possible.internationally However international adoption has “defined” costs. Your adoption fees, travel etc will all be known before versus domestic where costs vary from situation to situation. The cost of the birthfamily expenses vary. However the highest variable is the outreach to connecting to the birthfamily. To reach out to other adoptive families will help tremendously in receiving support and education about the different attornies and agencies.. The easiest way for one family will not always be the perfect fit for another family. ADOPTION IS A PERSONAL CHOICE. Do not rush // Ask yourself many questions about the type of child you WANT not the child you will settle for. Education and support through a very difficult process is the ONLY way ////  Samapc http://www.adoptiveparents.org

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Posted: 07 September 2008 06:53 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 4 ]
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Adopting domestically is a better way because we can know about the childs total history about health and mentality . by knowing about their parents we can also came to know whether the child is suffering from any hereditary diseases or not .
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Posted: 07 September 2008 07:54 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 5 ]
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Domestic vs. International is a very personal choice.  For some families the knowledge of the childs history is very important for others it is not. They have concerns dealing domestically with the birthfamily having the right to change their mind throughout the process. Others have difficulty talking to birtmothers. Each proces has different issues that make it a very personal choice that you have to be comfortable with. There are pros and cons to both directions. However whichever direction one decides to go the most important thing is to make sure your information is correct and up to date concerning the laws involved in the adoption Support Support that is the key .Many families are successful every day .Adoption is not a second choice but an alternative way of having a family. Good luck   http://www.adoptiveparents.org  Sam

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Posted: 22 September 2008 05:31 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 6 ]
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Posted: 22 September 2008 06:36 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 7 ]
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Free Admission for a Select Few Into Family Matters NY 2008!

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Posted: 08 November 2008 06:43 PM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 8 ]
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A great educational source will be the APC annual conference Sunday Nov 23 at Weill Medical College You will be able to interview international adoption agencies, domestic agencies and attornies who specialize in domestic adoption ck the website http://www.adoptiveparents.org  for costs as well as a list of the 85 workshops that will be presented Sam

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Posted: 21 October 2009 04:12 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 9 ]
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domestically is a better way because we can know about the childs total history about health and mentality . Knowing about their parents we can also came to know whether the child is suffering from any hereditary diseases or not .


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Posted: 21 October 2009 06:34 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 10 ]
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In making the decision domestic vs. international there are MANY issues to decide about. Yes domestically in most cases you will have more accurate medical information that is true. However international has some important advantages also. One being as close as possible fixed cost . You will know almost all your expenses ,agency fees ,travel , expenses, and paperwork. This is not the case domestically. The costs in finding a bir varies dramatically. The costs related to the adoption vary dramatically situation by situation because expenses vary by state.,bir situation,and travel expenses. Lastly domestically the issue of a bir CHANGING their mind hangs over every adoption. The time varies state by state that the birth mother has to change her mind.. In international in most cases you will not travel until the adoption is already finalized. The decision should be weighed on ones individual decision. A place to discover the differences and to explore both international as well as domestic is The APC 29th Annual Conference Sunday November 22 2009 at St Francis College in New York. ck website http://www.adoptiveparents.org

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Posted: 05 November 2009 05:54 AM   [ Ignore ]   [ # 11 ]
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As far as cost goes internationally vs domestic The costs internationally are not necessarily cheaper just more defined. One knows almost exactly what the paperwork fees are, the agency fees are,what the homestudy fees are. The only variable is the length of travel. Almost all international adoptions cost over $25 thousand dollars. Some domestic adoptions with the right circumstances ie. birthmother has medical coverage, lives at home thus very limited living expenses and is an area of closer proximity allowing the ability to drive can lessen the costs of a domestic adoption tremendously . While cost is always a factor to consider the ethinicity of the child and the age of the child which are the primary differences are tthe most important factors to consider

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